Wisdom from Prophets

Whoever loves to meet God, God loves to meet him -Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)

Wisdom from Quran

And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect (30:21)

Wisdom from Imams

If you desire to live freely, work hard like a slave, suffer pain and shut your eyes from the children of Adam whoever they may be, even from Hatam Ta'i (richest of the time). So have no expectation not only from mean people but also from the generous- Imam Ali (AS)